can't stand his friend

friends who know joa know that he's an exceedingly kind person. he's the most considerate, most patient and self-subservient person around all his friends with the exception of me.

so we're having a Pictionary Mania night and he's too kind to allow me to exclude inviting a particular friend of his who annoys me.

i don't know what else to do. we've argued about him. we've yelled at each other about him. i've made it clear that i can't stand him, i don't want to see him. but joa insists on being nice and considerate towards his feelings. not that that friend and him have a fabulous friendship. they don't. but joa just wants to be kind.

it's just him wanting to be kind. and me, just being evil (in his words).